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Waktu Bersetubuh untuk Mendapatkan Anak Laki-laki atau Perempuan

January 27, 2011

Secara umum … mendapatkan anak merupakan hal yang sangat penting dalam pernikahan … Selain sebagai penyambung garis keturunan keluarga … anak juga menjadi semacam pembuktian bagi pasangan suami istri untuk dapat menghadirkan keturunan … Cukup banyak kasus yang berkaitan dengan tidak harmonisnya hubungan suami-istri … dan bahkan ada yang berakhir dengan perceraian hanya karena pasangan yang bersangkutan tidak memiliki anak …

Selain itu … pada sebagian anggota masyarakat … masalah jenis kelamin anak juga menjadi penting … Banyak keluarga yang mengharapkan anak pertamanya laki-laki dan mungkin anak keduanya perempuan misalnya … meskipun (saya percaya bahwa pada umumnya mereka) tidak akan mengurangi kasih sayangnya terhadap anak jika jenis kelamin sang anak tidak sesuai dengan yang diharapkannya …

Namun sekarang ilmu pengetahuan sudah dapat mengetahui beberapa faktor yang mempengaruhi jenis kelamin anak yang akan dilahirkan nantinya … Beberapa faktor tersebut bisa dari pola diet, posisi waktu bersetubuh, namun yang juga sangat penting adalah waktu (timing) persetubuhan … Berikut kutipan artikelnya … :D

Timing Intercourse to Choose the Gender of Your Child

While there are no guarantees when it comes to natural gender selection, there are a few things that can be done to increase the likelihood of having a little boy or a little girl. If you are specifically wanting a boy or girl, it certainly doesn’t hurt to try a few natural techniques. You may not get the gender you want, but it sure is fun trying and the result is the same regardless – a happy and healthy baby, and that is what really matters.

In order to understand how the timing of when you have sex can impact the gender of your child it is important to look at two different things – first, how ovulation works and second, how the differences in sperm affect this timing. Let’s look at ovulation first.

Every month, there is a window of fertility that is approximately five days long. Three days prior to ovulation to one day following ovulation are the best times to conceive. Remember, the egg only has 24 hours of viability, and that sperm can live for up to five days in the reproductive tract. Each woman is different however, but this is the generally accepted “window of fertility” that occurs every month.

So, now that you’ve narrowed it down to five days of the month where you are fertile, it’s time to figure out how to time your intercourse to choose the gender of your child. Let’s take a look at the differences in sperm that carry the chromosomes that decide gender.

A sperm carrying the Y chromosome will result in a boy if it successfully fertilizes the egg. A sperm carrying the X chromosome will result in a girl. There are some main differences in these sperm that are important to understand. The Y sperm are very small, but also very quick and agile. The main downside is that they don’t live very long. The X sperm are bigger and much slower, but on the flip side, they live a lot longer.

Keeping this in mind, now let’s move to timing. In order to have a boy, it is vital to allow the Y sperm the time they need to reach the egg as quickly as possible. This means that you need to time intercourse on the day that you ovulate. The Y sperm won’t live much longer than that 24 hour period that the egg is viable and you need to give them that chance to meet the egg before they expire.

On the other hand, if you want to have a girl, you should time intercourse to two to three days prior to ovulation. During this time, the Y sperm will have died out, leaving the slower but more durable X sperm behind. This greatly increases the chances that you will have a girl.

There are many other factors that can effect the gender of your child such as diet, and even the sexual position that you use, but timing it properly can help you naturally select your child’s gender.

Namun sebagai orang beriman … saya tentu juga harus mengingatkan bahwa manusia memang wajib berusaha … tapi pada akhirnya hanya Allah saja yang menentukan … tul nggak … ??? … :D

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